Are you bracing yourself for the preteen years? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Marcus Higgs, a presence coach for parents of preteens, who reveals why this stage isn't something to fear, but an opportunity to forge an unbreakable bond with your child.
Are you bracing yourself for the preteen years? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Marcus Higgs, a presence coach for parents of preteens, who reveals why this stage isn't something to fear, but an opportunity to forge an unbreakable bond with your child.
Through captivating insights and practical wisdom, Marcus illuminates:
The "ICE" Model: Understanding Your Preteen's Inner World
Why your child's shifting identity is a natural and necessary part of growth
How to navigate the tricky waters of collaborative mistrust
Practical strategies to support your preteen's developing emotional management skills
The "Show Up" Framework: A Blueprint for Authentic Connection
Start with a strong character identity: Harnessing your child's unique strengths
Hold space for collaboration: Fostering critical thinking and problem-solving skills
Open up communication: Passing on values without being preachy
Wonder and explore this world together: The power of shared projects and goals
Unveiling Potential Together: The Heart of the Framework
Why letting go of the reins is crucial for your child's development
How to create an environment of mutual growth and flourishing
Marcus doesn't just offer theory – he provides actionable steps you can implement today:
Communicate unconditional acceptance (even when it's challenging)
Prioritize your own well-being to show up as your best self
Embrace the present moment, knowing these years are fleeting
Whether you're already navigating the preteen years or they're on the horizon, this conversation will equip you with the tools to not just survive, but thrive during this transformative stage. Are you ready to reframe your perspective and build a relationship that will last a lifetime?
Tune in and discover how to become the trustworthy, present parent your preteen needs.